Wedding Day...Whats that?!

A wedding is the ceremony in which two people are united in marriage. Wedding traditions and customs vary greatly between cultures, ethnic groups, religious, countries, and social classes. Most wedding ceremonies involve an exchange of wedding vows by the couple, presentation of a gift (offering, ring(s), symbolic item, flowers, money), and a public proclamation of marriage by an authority figure or leader. Special wedding garments are often worn, and the ceremony is followed by a wedding reception.(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weddings)


Definition about Wedding? Alan's dictionary defines Wedding day as the "most" day in life (in singapore):

Times:
Spend most of the time to keep a look out for future nest (HDB)
Spend most of the time to go through the balloting thinggy (which i doubt its fairness)
Spend most of the time to find for re-sale flat (out of no choice)
Spend most of the time to view flat
Spend most of the time to deal for the flat
Spend most of the time to search for Solemnization venue
Spend most of the time to invite Solemnizer
Spend most of the time to filter guest list for Solemnization
Spend most of the time to search for Hotel for Wedding Banquet
Spend most of the time to view hotels
Spend most of the time to filter and short-list hotels
Spend most of the time to count and result the number of guest
Spend most of the time to search for Bridal Shop (here comes the most headache one)
Spend most of the time to hear those feedback/review from ex-brides and grooms
Spend most of the time to finalise and decide which shop to choose
Spend most of the time to start trying up Brides Gown
Spend most of the time to start looking for photo shooting location
Spend most of the time to shop for Wedding Band
Spend most of the time to shop for furnitures
Spend most of the time to shop for Wedding Shoes
Spend most of the time to look for movers
Spend most of the time to.... (That's all ....so far...)

Money:
Spend most of the saving to get proposal ring (Guys, This is a must!!..ok, i noe i noe !!)
Spend most of the saving to pay the down-payment for flat
Spend most of the saving to buy furnitures
Spend most of the saving to buy Wedding Band
Spend most of the saving to pay for Solemnization
Spend most of the saving to pay for Wedding banquet
Spend most of the saving to pay for Bridal Photo packages
Spend most of the saving to pay for photographer AND videographer
Spend most of the saving to pay for bride's "ping jing"
Spend most of the saving to pay for shoes
Spend most of the saving to pay for those "jie mei" who think it is funny to make fun of the Groom
Spend most of the saving to pay for ..... (i guess nothing more..but i'm broke..too bad)

Afterall, i turned from Hero to Zero($$)....

Merciful God, i pray that your blessing pour over me..i pray for the strength to maintain the love n kindness to my wife-to-be...i pray for the wisdom to make wise decisions..i pray for the guidance towards a blessed marriage life...i pray for the protection and loves surrounds our nest..i thank you Lord for all the blessings and everything You've given me...Amen.

P/s: Guys, this can be a check list if u r planning for urs and .... IT IS FREE...

Peace~~